I feel like once you get engaged there should be a how-to book
of what to expect when you move in with the opposite sex and how-to adjust.
Even though I have been married almost three years there are still things my
husband does that catches me completely off guard. I am hoping it is not just
my husband that surprises me with these odd things. Please tell me it is
universal across the male sex.
Pretend makes the
bed. Since Matt typically leaves for work later than I do, and lies in
bed longer than I do, one of his chores is to make the bed. Making the bed and
putting away laundry are two things Matt hates to do. I religiously kick off my
socks in the middle of the night, and if you made the bed correctly you might
find a pair of socks wedged at the bottom of the bed. Since Matt pretend makes
the bed every time I throw the sheets back I find at least 4 pair of socks at
the bottom of the bed. So that’s where all my socks went. When will my husband
actually make the bed?
Drinks expired
milk! Lately I have been trying to drink organic milk and purchase
organic dairy products in hopes that it will help regulate my hormones and
award me with a baby. I know, I know, that is probably ridiculous, but every
little thing helps right? Matt and I took our bi-monthly trip to Sprouts and
got a brand new gallon of organic milk. When we got home I proceeded to toss
out the expired milk in the fridge that Matt has been hording. “Are you serious
Cassie? That milk is perfectly fine!” –Matt. “Matt this milk is expired. Why are
you so gross? We have a brand new gallon.”- Me. “Cassie is says ‘best buy’ it
may not be the best, but it isn't the worst.”- Matt. Is this really the logic men use when determining whether or not to
throw out milk? I proceeded to dump the milk down the drain as Matt lapped
the running milk into his mouth. Please let me this has happened to you?
Puts barbecue sauce on everything. What is up with men and their condiments? Once
upon a time in our marriage I would attempt to cook a well-rounded meal, which
is quite a change from my typical Dino nuggets and peanut butter and jelly
sandwiches. I have since stopped cooking well rounded meals because my husband
will lather anything I make in barbecue sauce. I mean everything…. Salad,
pasta, stew, soup… you name it, he puts barbecue sauce on it. So is it my
cooking? Or does he really just love barbecue sauce? I haven’t figured it out
yet, I don’t know if I want to.
If you have ever been a roommate of mine you know I am extremely
hard to live with. I am a bossy neat freak that wants everything done on my
time. But I have had to slowly learn to adjust to living well with my husband.
Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.